So after much searching I finally found all the peices to make a working windows service & server including:
- Installing & Uninstalling the service
- Starting & Stopping the Service
- Actually running a basic Server
- Responding to windows Service to Stop/Start/Restart 
I hope you find this useful! I did this using PHP 5.2 and the PECL library for 5.2 (PHP 5.3 at the time does not have a PECL Library compiled for it)
<?php
    $Service = 'MyServiceFinal';
    $Display = 'My PHP Service';
    
    $host = '127.0.0.1';        $port = 23;                            $max = 20;                            if (!isset($argv[1])){ShowHelp(); exit;}
    
    if ($argv[1] == 'install') {                         
    $x = win32_create_service(array(
        'service' => $Service,
        'display' => $Service,
        'params' => __file__ . ' run',
        'path' => 'c:\\php\\php.exe',
    ));
    debug_zval_dump($x);
    echo "Service Installed\n\n";
    exit;
    
  } else if ($argv[1] == 'uninstall') {
        $x = win32_delete_service($Service);
        debug_zval_dump($x);
        echo "Service Removed\n\n";
        exit;
    
  } elseif($argv[1] == "start") {
      $x = win32_start_service($Service);
      debug_zval_dump($x);
      echo "Service Started\n\n";
      exit;
      
    } elseif($argv[1] == "stop") {
      $x = win32_stop_service($Service);
      debug_zval_dump($x);
      echo "Service Stopped\n\n";
      exit;
      
    } else if ($argv[1] != 'run') {
        ShowHelp(); exit();
    }
if (!win32_start_service_ctrl_dispatcher($Service)) die("Could not connect to service : $Service");
win32_set_service_status(WIN32_SERVICE_RUNNING);
set_time_limit(0);
ob_implicit_flush();
while (1) {
    usleep(500);
    
    switch (win32_get_last_control_message()) {
        case WIN32_SERVICE_CONTROL_CONTINUE: break; case WIN32_SERVICE_CONTROL_INTERROGATE: win32_set_service_status(WIN32_NO_ERROR); break; case WIN32_SERVICE_CONTROL_STOP: win32_set_service_status(WIN32_SERVICE_STOPPED); exit; default: win32_set_service_status(WIN32_ERROR_CALL_NOT_IMPLEMENTED); }
    }
win32_set_service_status(WIN32_SERVICE_STOPPED);
exit;
function ShowHelp(){
    echo "Usage:
    install:\t installs servce
    uninstall:\t deletes service
    start:\t\t Start the windows service
    stop:\t\t Stops the windows service
    run:\t\t called by CMS to run the service
    
For information on code numbers type 'net helpmsg xxxx'
EXAMPEL: 'net helpmsg 1072'
    
    ";
}
?>